I believe that men are not all the same. Some may say they are, but normally they only say that when they are hurting or down about something at the moment. I do believe they are not all the same,but i also do believe they may sometimes do the samething,but inside they are not the same.You can not take out you anger on a new guy that an old guy did to you. It is not right or not fair.Basically because it is not their fault.They can help you,but it isn’t their fault on what the old guy did to you. Believing this has made me more open minded when it comes to men, i will say that.