Letter to my girls

Nickisha - USA
Entered on April 30, 2008
Age Group: 18 - 30
Themes: parenthood

Dear Baby Girls,

I do truly believe that everything does happen for a reason. For what that reason is God only knows. I believe that for every moment is a moment that is meant to be. I believe that God has a plan for each and every one of us. I do believe that God has brought you into my life for a reason.

I do believe that I was headed in the wrong direction. I do believe that you girls are the very best thing that has ever happened to me. You have made me see things that I normally would not see. It was like God gave me a new pair of eye glasses. I can now see into people’s hearts and souls. I can now see the importance of family.

You girls have made me mature. I no longer put myself first. I now think before I say and do things. For example, if I got mad at someone I would had normally said something hateful. It didn’t bother if I had hurt someone’s feelings. It now bothers me if I do hurt someone I have learned not to judge people. People may seem a certain way or look a certain way. You have to see the person for what’s on the inside.

Being a parent has been the hardest job for me. For example, it’s rough having to go only on four hours of sleep a night. Being a parent has been the most rewarding thing in my life. Rewarding in ways such as, knowing the meaning of true love. I thought I knew what love was until I met you. I did not know that it was possible to love something or someone so much. It is absolutely the very best feeling in the world.

I believe that when you meet people you touch their hearts. You seem to make them a little softer on the inside. For example, I never liked kids until you girls come around. You always make everyone around you happy. You girls are so full of joy. I guess it rubs off on other people. I’m sure that was Gods plan for you girls.

I do believe that you will receive plenty of advice in your lifetime. My advice to you is to never take things for granted. Always value the people and things in your life. Cherish each and every moment. Things can change in a split second. You don’t know what tomorrow brings. Go for your dreams. I know that you will succeed.

Love always,