Pure True Love

Have you ever loved someone so much you would do anything for them, only to have that love thrown back in your face? My Uncle Beau is the most sweet, caring, and loving man I know. Yet he can’t seem to find a girl to love him the same way. They act the part until they wake-up and THINK they can do better. Now he says love is a lie, a game and doesn’t exist, I believe true, pure love is as real as the air we breathe. I know that he can find it. I just think that he needs to be a savoir for women. So his love is one sided, but he really should find a nice sweet girl that loves him for who he really is. Not a girl who needs him to help her find out she can do better, so she can run off and leave him, being both selfish and cruel.

My uncle has always dreamed of a big family with lots of kids, the only child he ever had passed away before he was one. It was the tragic event my family and I have ever witnessed. R.I.P. Tyler you are loved and missed. I want my uncle to be able to have that big family he has always wanted, with a girl that will not use him but love him.

Real love exists I’ve seen it. My grandparents on my father’s side are the most amazing couple ever. My grandpa Dan says he still, to this day, gets butterflies in his stomach when my grandma Teresa gets home from work. She told me when they were first married that when they would fight she would go to the couch to sleep. He would sit by the couch, “What do you think you’re doing?” She would ask. “I can’t sleep with you so far away.” And he would sleep sitting in front of the couch all night.

Beau is like my Grandpa Dan and he needs a girl like my Grandma, who will love him with all she’s got and respect his giving nature. Not take him for granted. I hate hearing him say that love is dead; when for him it is simply lost, waiting to be found.

So to my Uncle Beau I say that true love is right in front of him, his parents or if he needs more proof look at my parents. They were still in high school when they got married and had me, most people said they were two kids too young to know what love is. Now 20 years later they are still HAPPILY married and madly in love. My mom still writes little love notes in his lunches and he still does cute romantic things for her, like make her a build-a-bear and even do the dance to give the heart you put inside the bear love. Now I understand his pessimism toward love but he should put faith in love to give up on something so beautiful, so completely fulfilling would be a truly tragic thing. I believe in true love, it’s not easy or fun all the time, but it’s the most wonderful thing in the world.