Starting to grow up

I believe in starting to grow up and being more mature.

Most kids think that it is all about games and play,but there is a time when you are starting to grow up .In elementary you play with a friend a game or anything that you can in the large playful yard.But once you get to middle school or other grade and you get older you start to see that you need to change.It may be a change in school or outside of school.Sometimes it’s a big change and sometimes it’s not that big.Some changes come earlier or later,but one thing is for sure that we all have stories,events or changes that makes us more mature and start to grow up.

This happened to me when I had two surprises.The first one was when my mom told me that I was going to have a baby sister.After this happened,I was the only child.I felt I was the queen of the world.I got everything I wanted and more.I went to a lot of places with my parents.I say I was spoiled when I was an only child .One thing I remember I did do with my family is when I went to Mexico.I had a lot of fun and felt I was on top of the world because everyone treated me nice.I didn’t have to share anything.Then one day it happened my sister was about to come in less than 9 months,this is when my mom told me about my sister.So at first I didn’t believe it because nothing was happening at that moment.I thought that it wasn’t true because of my crazy ideas and thoughts. I think all of us think weird thing when we are small.I was only 5,starting to know what school and life was.Then time passed and it was a ‘’regular’’ day until my mom wasn’t there only my dad and he told me that my mom was in the hospital and I couldn’t believe it, what they told me was true.I was sad and you could see my red eyes with tears going down my cheeks,wanting to go to see her and could only stop crying until I saw her and my sister.

Then I had to share things like toys when my sister was born,I was 4 years.But then my second surprise was coming.My parents told me I was going to have a little brother and I was a little older to understand the process so I wasn’t that surprised. When I new about this ,this was a change but not that big because I had gone through this already with my sister. I was still young and did not have to clean and help out when my sister was born.But this changed when came my brother got older.I was 9 when things had to change.I had to get less of everything,but one thing was the same,my reaction,I don’t know why I was still crying when I saw my baby brother in the hospital room maybe because I couldn’t believe I had a cute baby brother.I was crying less though. Some thing that I had to share and still do today is my parents.I had to started to have more responsibilities when I started middle school and this is how I formed my believe.

I have learned a lot from this experience. I am also sure that I had more stories/events in my life that brought me to have different believes,but this is the one that I remember the most.Some things that I learned in my experience was that not everything is always perfect in life,it may for a while but then problems start to occur.Another thing that I learned was that you always need to be prepared when change might come.

I think that this was not that big of a change but still was meaningful.This change will stay with me forever.Other people might have a different change but all of us get a change in our lives.It might be a change that will be hard,but it’s also a change that will be negative or positive in you lives.And this is when I believe you start to grow up and be more mature.Even if the change was negative there is always something positive about it.