One life, One Love
Close your eyes no, visualize love. Almost everyone would see a happy couple googly eyed overreach other. But is that always true? That depends on the person and his or her experiences. Love comes in many different ways. You could be a happy couple, or you could have broken up and still have feelings for that special someone. Love is a complicated subject to talk about. There are a lot of different views about how many times love can enter your life. Watching people and through my own experiences with guys, I believe true love only comes once in a persons life.
Most people would say they have been in love many times. The weird thing is, I don’t think you can actually love someone until you can understand the meaning of love. Love is not just being with someone and carrying for them; it’s much more than that. Love is not missing someone or wanting them to talk to you constantly. A part of love is about the very moment when you’re doing something and you wish that person was right there with you. I thought I loved someone because I was with him for so long, but I realized you can be with someone for years and not truly love him. I do know I cared for that guy dearly, and I always will.
Love is also willing to do anything and everything in this world for that special someone. Honestly, people who are truly in love would take a bullet in the heart for the person they care for and respect. Sometimes people who are married get in a predicament and get a divorce, and they get remarried. That is a confusing situation. At the time they got married they probably fell head over heels for each other, but as time passes if you’re not truly in love, its going to show, even if it’s by cheating. So they might get remarried and then find their true love, but the person you truly love might not always truly love you back that’s when people start to get hurt.
When you’re in love with someone I believe that means never having to say you’re sorry, because if you truly, honestly loved them you would do anything and everything to make them happy. You wouldn’t hurt someone you loved, because you wouldn’t want to see them cry. Watching someone cry over something you did to them especially if they mean the world to you that would break your heart to watch tears fall down their face. You wouldn’t want to watch someone who cares for you with every fiber in their heart cry and let tears make their eyes red and watch the tears fall off their face like rain droplets on a rainy day. My ex boyfriend use to make me cry everyday, and I didn’t realize he didn’t care until one day I really needed him to be there for me when I was going through a hard time and he just let me sit there and cry. He didn’t care because he knew I wasn’t his true love I just hadn’t realized it yet.
Love is meant for everyone and everything, but it’s only going to come once. So when it does, don’t let it go. It may no always be perfect but when it is that’s going to be the best and perfect time in your life. So don’t let that special someone go, even if you have a feeling you may be in love. If you get butterflies in your stomach when they call, or when you check your text messages you always want a text to be from them even if it says “Hi”. Even if your with that person and your so lost for words you cant remember your own name, or you feel weak in the knees, then you need to watch out because that could be who you were searching for. You never have to search for love, because love will always find you. Even when you least expect it.
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