I believe in destiny. I believe that everything in life happens for a reason and
my path in life is not arbitrary.
For the last years of my life I was really unhappy with my whole life
situation. I ended up being 25 years old, a lazy German guy who lived out of his
parents pockets. Although I was still enrolled in school at RWTH-Aachen
University, instead I preferred to just live in the day, wasting my afternoons with
my criminal friends, who were of course a bad influence in my life, and partied
every other night.
The only times that I was able to sleep, were when I came home from clubs
drunk. Usually depressions and the search for a sense in my life kept me awake
until 5 am in the morning. I was really lost and did not like to see my parents
worry about me and my future. On the other hand I did not have the strength to
help myself out of my situation, and I did not accept any advice from people who
tried to help me.
Then one day when I drove a friend to the airport, the idea of making a trip to
Miami came like a flash of lightning into my brain. I still have no idea why Miami
of all the other, closer places I could have gone to. I never thought about spending
my vacation in Florida, and at no time in my life did I have the wish to cross the
Atlantic Ocean and to tan at the sunny beaches of South Miami Beach.
But now I had this indescribable force in me that did not let me think of
anything else than to finally fly to Miami. I could not wait any second longer to
book, I had already lost all my patients. I was excited like a little child before it
gets to open its Christmas presents.
After I finally arrived at South Miami Beach, I fell in love with that City right
away. My time over here was an eye opening experience that showed me that
everything I did during the last couple of years was just a waste of time. Here I
could see how hard work and success pays off , when I saw all those expensive
mansions, cars, and yachts.
This experience ultimately gave me the strength and the will to change my life.
Today, only about sixteen months later, I am student at Florida International
University. It was destiny that lead me out of my crisis, and it was destiny that
saved me before I would have made more inexcusable mistakes.
My future is unpredictable. People may call such occasions coincidence or
even God’s will. I call it destiny, because I could have gone to any other place on
earth, but instead I ended up in Miami, where a one week trip turned into a
continuing of my academic career.
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