As humans we want to control our lives and the situations we allow ourselves to be in. It is within us to want plan our future and have dreams and goals. I believe everything that happens is for a reason. We may have visions for our life but the blueprint for our future is held in the control of a higher being.
Syracuse University was not my dream school. In high school, I had my heart set on going to the University of Miami. I dreamed of being in a tropical environment where I would wear a bathing suit and flip flops under my clothes to class. I planned on going to the beach between classes. I thought I was destined to have a permanent tan for the duration of my undergraduate career.
My aspirations became a dream deferred when University of Miami rejected me. I was heart broken. I was supposed to major in musical engineering and become a producer. Being that I was going to be an African American female producer, I would be such a hot commodity that I would only work with exclusive artists.
Now I have come to the realization that I was not supposed to go to the University of Miami and being rejected happened for a reason. Although I still prefer the tropical climate to the snow, my decision to attend Syracuse was a great one. Not only is my education paid for. I have learned so much academically and socially. I have begun to make connections and I am in the process of creating a promising future. I have met friends who I hope will remain my friends for a lifetime. The best thing is I have learned lessons that are exclusive to this location and my Syracuse surroundings.
I believe we are all here for a reason. I believe we are all fulfilling a higher purpose, designed by a higher being. I believe we have no real control over our futures. I believe in destiny. I believe anything and everything that happens, happens for a reason.
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