I believe in failure. I believe we learn from it, and that it makes us stronger. I don’t believe in failing, I do believe we can learn from it. I believe we can look at failure in a different way, and that overall, overcoming failure can make us a stronger, more powerful, more optimistic person.
I have phonemic awareness. It is similar to auditory dyslexia. It’s a disability that affects your spelling, conventions of grammar, reading, writing and ability to sound out words. In elementary school I struggled with this often. I would fail spelling tests, I would receive bad grades on papers and I was one of the last ones to learn how to read in my class. I have always been creative and I have always had well thought out ideas. But I always felt so dumb. I was constantly failing. It seemed like nothing came easy to me, like it did to all my friends. This was hard for me, I lacked self confidence and motivation but this all turned around.
I went to a great middle school that honored the idea more then the mechanics of how things were spelled. With help from this school I learned I was smarter then I thought. My grades improved, and I started looking at things in a new way. By thinking things out and taking a new perspective. I started talking pride in my work and now have the confidence I needed. I started thinking about this “failure” as something I was proud to overcome.
I still have problems with my disability. It still affects me often in school. I have a lot of spelling errors on schoolwork and have trouble with conventions of grammar in my writing .But now I don’t look at it as a problem that sets me back anymore. I look at it as something to overcome. Having this disability has made me a less judgmental person. When I see other people who are have unseen struggles as I do I don’t judge them, I understand their situation.
Struggles and failure can discourage us from reaching our full potential. But, with the right help and motivation it can really turn around. I believe any one can succeed and that everyone should have access to the help if they need it. I believe that failing makes us stronger if you rise to overcome it.
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